The other day I was chatting with a freind about gaining clarity in lot of things.
We hear what we want to hear and we see what we want to see. Is there a clarity in what we want to see and hear.
Lets talk about what we know about relationship and what we know about love. I`ll give you my perspective.
Whenever I talk of love(between man and woman) I just don`t get to believe the age old belief of love coming naturally. Like many things in life when I hear the word I never can come to a conclusion. People call me a emotional being. So am I !! But why is there a machine like feeling when I start thinking of "love" seriously.
Is it just a word that was coined in past age to descibe SUPPOSED to be felt feeling of one human being for another ? People go through these feelings, make mistake and still are convinced to make the mistake again. May be being in love is not a mistake but thinking it all comes naturally is a mistake.
People believe it to be special. Something special is exclusive but the name "love" that exits is itself a testimony that its a pattern of feeling felt universally by everyone, particular way of being with someone. Is there anything distictive about it?
Love just happens!! can this be true ?
I think it is all calculated. You must be telling to yourself that it must be love and one fine morning the little doubt you have fades away... then you start telling to your freinds like Sameer( Saif Ali Khan ) in DCH how genuine your love is " it just happenned to me you know"
For sure I know that I need clarity in lot of aspects !!! One thing would be with the word "love"
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get a girl friend, buddy...
amritasandhya:may be experience will proove it..and give u more clarity i guess...
thanks!!..same to u dude...get a girl u will know?? its a feeling dude...everyone has their own way of expressin it...u gotta get into it ...to understand it yourself...n love is definately not calculated....it jus happens!!!
"Get a girl u will know" ...underline "u will know"
that means u select a girl and it can never be that u see or hear someone and u fall in love. There is a covert process of selection that happens
I am not denying the fact of it being a special feeling but all i am saying is we think, select and evaluate and then fall in love. We do choose our love...that is what happens in most cases...
get a girl ...means when u get urself a girl u ll know...u don chose the person who u fall in love with. it jus happens..sometimes communication ...sometimes...u get no reason but u r i love...u feel it once n u ll know...thats what i intended to say!!!
why still a debate???...what doesn convince you still???
http://lifofifo.blogspot.com/...read this!!
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