Saturday, June 04, 2005

nature does conspire

A week ago Abisar gupta had come home...He is a freind from college days. We and few others in college would talk about different issues that bothered us. This time it was`nt different, we were talking of the recent developements in politics and politics in crickets on which a lot of people while away their time.

As we talked he came up with something he read " If you know your destiny, Nature will conspire you to your destiny "
...........the issue is does anyone know what his or her destiny is?

All that we do is work for a short term goal, reach it and then take up another travel to reach another goal. Most of the time it has been goals set by others. Like our parents in school setting goals( a admission in a engg or medical college) for us to reach, or in college to get placed in XYZ company because our senior told that was the best the engineering branch could offer.

Have we ever thought of making our destiny our destination ?

Actually we never know what our detiny or life objective is. Are these words little big to be even written about. Still in our twenties, most of us ridicule someone who talks of such things. To write something like this in my second day I felt shy.I thought whether I should ever write something like this. But there were more reasons for me to be shy. I have had a lot of these objectives in mind, things I had set to do in future. But have`nt done much to move forward towards those dreams. Should I, who has achieved far less than the targeted, talk about my life objective so that atleast there are people to question incase I even fail to try.

Anyone from my college would remember this quote" Dare to dream " . It was engraved in our computer centre. I have been doing this all my life-dreaming. No one ever said what should be the next step. How should i be giving form to my dreams ? I can now follow it up with another question from what Abhisar said. How does nature conspire to the destiny ?
Does nature teach us through experience of what to do and what not to do so that we reach our detiny? Yes Experience..... offering oppurtunities. Nature offers oppurtunities. Once we know our destiny we are certain to recongnise the oppurtunity we come across. And once we cash in on our oppurtunity we should be on the right course towards our destiny crossing milestones with the passing days.

One such oppurtunity I came across recently was getting associated with SUYAM. I strongly believe this one step should take me more a mile in coming days.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Jaya,
I read through you Blog.Here are my review comments on the same-

First of all let me congratulate you for at least trying the so called “Dare to dream”. It gives me immense satisfaction in saying that at least you had your own set of ideas. Not many people in the world do things on their own, words like success, satisfaction, ambition and happiness are derived from what others feel and tell them.

One derives happiness only when he does things he wants to, not what others want him to do or told him are the things to do to feel happy. You will come across many opportunities in you life where you might have thought “this what I am going to do” ,but (with a “t”) you were afraid and fearful to take it up because of the RISK and the SOCIAL STIGMA attached to it, This is where individual thinking comes into play. When want to something CREATIVE and OUT OF THE WORLD .Don’t be influenced by the mortals of this world want you to do it “AT LEAST YOU HAVE THE SATISFACTION OF FEELING WHAT YOU TRIED WAS SOMETHING OF YOUR OWN AND NOT A RESULT OF WHAT OTHERS PERCEIVED”

I always believe in deriving happiness from my ideas, my hard work and its rewards which make me HAPPY, NOT DERIVED OUT OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TELL ME. Not many people in the world do stuff on their own because they are SWAYED by what other people say.



Regarding your friends comments “If you know your destiny, Nature will conspire you to your destiny” I think he is rite.

What he actually ought to say was “If you CREATE your destiny, Nature will conspire you to your destiny”.



Just to make you understand better “Joining BIM is not the creative idea you had but being a entrepreneur might be one and Bim is an Learning curve which moves closer to your Creative and Independent Ambition”



P.S:” The biggest risk in life is not taking one”



I hope I was able to understand and comprehend your blog in the right perspective.



Thanks Jaya and Srini for letting me know there are people in this world who have the Attitude just like me.



Regards

Arun

Anonymous said...

i have read the blog and the comments.. now need new blogs to read.. so plz oblige.